The person who sexually abuses and exploits can be just about anyone – a father or mother; a sister or brother; an aunt or uncle, a teacher; a coach; a priest, minister, rabbi or clergy person; a neighbor; a friend; a stranger – sexual abusers can usually be identified only by the individual they abuse. Often times the victim is the only person who knows.

Whoever they are, no matter how rich or powerful, well-known or well-liked, if they sexually abuse or exploit you, they are committing a crime. If someone has sexually abused you or exploited you, and you feel that the time is right to come forward, there are professionals you can talk to about your experience. They can assist you in getting the help you need.

You do not have to face or name your abuser. You don’t have to give any information you are not comfortable disclosing. It does not matter how long ago the abuse was. Help and treatment is available to you.


We aim to create for our children an environment that will embrace the people
who have the courage to tell of their abuse.

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We must believe and support them and not make them feel responsible.
 

We must love them.


Diocesan Victim Assistance Coordinator:

Roxann Storms, MSW, LGSW, FT
(320) 248-1563

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What to do when someone reports abuse:

- Keep calm
- Be supportive
- Listen non-judgmentally
- Report to appropriate authorities
- Seek medical attention, if appropriate

What not to do when someone reports abuse:

- Do not overwhelm the person
- Do not press for details
- Do not make any promises that you are not sure you will be able to keep
- Do not confront the offender (leave this to the proper authorities).

 

Downloadable Parish Pamphlet for Reporting Abuse

 
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